How to identify & handle toxic people?

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Santosh Gairola   By   santosh |  updated :   9 Dec 2017

How to identify toxic people

On this post we have defined how to identify toxic people? Toxic people are the people who are negative by nature. The one who cannot tolerate other people success and happiness. People who are surrounded by such type of people are really in a bigger problem.

Toxic personalities signs

  1. They are always unhappy with you and never appreciate your efforts.
  2. They are always your attention seeker. They will hardly respect and value your time.
  3. They will always try to humiliate you in public or in front of the people you care about.
  4. They will feel happy when you will suffer any kind of loss in front of them

These are the few characteristics of a toxic person. By observing these Characteristics in a person you can easily identify the toxic person.

How toxic people impact you?

whether we believe it or not but toxic people definitely affect us. They send the strong mystic signals to you which makes The law of attraction works against you. If you are thinking that you are the lucky one who doesn't have any toxic people in your life. Then my friend you are on wrong track. You must try to identify the toxic people around you who brings negativity.

These are the few examples how toxic people impact you

  1. They have the ability to turn your positive thought process into the negative thought process. Such toxic people will always say that whatever you may be thinking is not possible.

    Trust me Everything is possible, there is The greatness within you. You will make it happen if your intentions behind that thought process are positive.

  2. You need to understand that wrong is wrong whether everyone is doing and right is right whether no one is doing.

    Negative people will provoke you to always choose wrong options. They will not just provoke you; they will force you to go with the negative option.

    For example, We all know alcohol consumption is bad for health and if you not an alcoholic person; they will provoke you to be the one. It is your sensibility how you refuse to accept their given provocation and stay a non-alcoholic person.

  3. Toxic people will see the negative aspect of everything, They will hardly talk about the good and positive aspect of that matter.

  4. Such people are most harmful people if they are in your business environment or business circle. Eliminate them as soon as possible.

How to identify toxic friends in your friend circle?

For understanding the meaning of toxic friend you have to first understand the meaning of true friendship. A true friend is someone who is companion and well wisher.

A selfless bond between two guys is a true friendship. The bond you share with him/her should be free from the desire of materialistic world from both sides. It should be a pure bond of affection mixed with care and joy.

Such friendship is the valuable gem and you can rely on that person.

If your friendship doesn't have this positivity then my friend it is some kind of business because friendship is always selfless.

What are the toxic people traits?

  1. A person who always says rubbish against someone without getting in the main reason is definitely a toxic person. It may be possible that he may get a chance to speak behind against you. He will surely do that.

  2. If your friend gets jealous of your success, Then it is the strong indication of the toxic person. Please don't get confused here, I m not saying to judge anyone what I m saying is that have a close eye when you achieve some kind of success in your life check out who is not clapping or not wishing you in your good times.

  3. Toxic friend will never have respect for your feelings and emotion. For example, if you are in a party and your so-called friend is the music Disk Jockey and you request him to play a song for just a few minutes and he doesn't play it on your continuous request and ignores you completely. Then, my friend, I think you get the point.

  4. Your toxic friend will misuse your stuff and he will never care about your stuff. Like he/she can request you to share your two-wheeler with them and in the time of return he/she may tell you that your vehicle is not in a good state or she/he may tell you that it's gas tank is empty.

    On the other, your true friend will take care of your stuff, If they will find out some problem with your vehicle they will definitely take your vehicle into the repair shop or may return your vehicle after filling the gas.

  5. When you will go to your toxic friend and ask for a suggestion they will mislead you. A toxic person will never have The fundamental leadership skills to guide you.

How to Deal With Toxic People

Try to take as much positivity you can take from your surrounding. Here are some examples which will help you to deal with toxic people.

Seeing rising sun will give you immense positive energy. There is an old saying that early to bed and early to rise makes you healthy and wise. Try to wake up at 4 am in the morning.

It is said that Precaution is better than cure so always pay attention to your toxic friend when he/she speaks to you and try to analyze the hidden motive behind their talks.

For this purpose, your mind should be calm and Meditation can help you a lot to give you peace of mind.

There are also so many others Benefits of meditation which are related to health.

In today's modern era it may be possible that your toxic friend may exist in your digital world. You need to aware of them.

Everything has two aspects one is good and other is not that good. Similarly, social media has two aspects.

It is really great how social media is helping people to get connected all across the globe and making this world more open and connected same time we cannot ignore the harm from negatives of social media.

Dealing with a toxic personality

It is really important that you must identify such toxic people. Such people will use you for their personal benefits and never give you their helping hand when you need them the most.

So question come to common mind how to deal with them. There are two ways of doing them.

  1. Eliminate them from your life. You are the master of your soul, you don't require such negative people who have two faces one is good in front of you and another one is bad behind your back.
  2. Don't share your secrets with them. Sharing your secret with toxic people makes you weak in front of them so never reveal your weakness in front of those people who are toxic by nature.

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About Toxic relationship

These days people are getting greedy and selfish day by day. On this post, I don't need to tell you that a relationship could be toxic; if there are not two right people on it.

Trust, and care are the solid foundation of Love or any relationship.

You can have the greatest persuasive techniques to impress any girl or any boy but what you need to understand is that what kind of person they are by heart.

A rogue partner who doesn't care about you cannot give you true love. The sooner you realize it, more good for you. This world is full of great and amazing people, Every morning brings out the great possibilities.

If you recently gone though break up then try to overcome the hangover of breakup and start living your life again. Life is beautiful you can get fall in love again but this time try to analyze the person to whom you are feeling enchanted.

When a girl falls in love she becomes sweeter and when a guy falls in love he gets confused about how to take next step. Yes, girls, we boys get confused when we start falling for any girl.

We are men we never care about the colors of curtains in the kitchen.

For most of the guys, only one thing keeps revolving on our mind how to get instant success or how to make an income channel or how to create a passive money inflow.

So we guys don't like to read fairly love story we like to read something related to making money like the Simple and easy summary of Rich Dad and the poor dad. In such circumstances, it gets hards for boys to identify the toxicity level in their companion.

We boys always need a good list of question to ask a girl. An open and cool interaction is necessary to spot whether the person is negative or not. Such relationship question can help both girls and boys to find out their ideal partner.


On this post, we defined about the traits of a negative toxic and How to identify and handle toxic person. Toxic people will never motivate you to get success. so it is important to keep the distance with them and live a happy life.

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