How to build confidence and self-esteem?

how to build confidence and self-esteem.
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Santosh Gairola   By   santosh |  updated :   24 May 2018
Let Confidence be your Hallmark, On this post, we are going to share how to build confidence and self-esteem.

Well, firstly I would tell you that it is not a paid post.

If you want to succeed in life, you must tell to yourself that you can succeed or You can do it . This kind of positive attitude will give you the inner strength to materialize your dreams.

Once you know that you have the passion for your dream, you will automatically be enthusiastic to set goals and achieve them.

Confidence is an affirmation of the belief that you have in your capabilities. It is a character of your inner self that provides the conviction.

With Confidence, You can reach truly amazing heights; without confidence, even the simple accomplishments are beyond your grasp.
- Jim Loehr.

Confidence and self-esteem is all about the way you feel about yourself

It is really crucial to understand how to build confidence and self-esteem. It is one of the key elements to a prosperous life.

Building Confidence and self-esteem gives you the mindset that what you are doing is right for you and melts away undue doubts & fears.

Confidence does not come from knowing everything, It comes when you are open-minded and ready to learn new things.

You do not have to be the best to succeed, you just need to believe that there is hidden greatness within you .

Your perception towards about the self-has an enormous impact on how others perceive you.

When you are confident, you can face life struggles boldly and ready to accept life hurdles. Your Confidence and self-esteem will give you the strength to turn all odds in your favour.

The significance of Confidence and self-esteem

  1. It makes you feel more accountable and in control
  2. It will give you the ability to control your emotions and anxieties.
  3. It will gear up you go in pursuit of your goal.
  4. It will make you more ambitious, credible and convincing.
  5. Empower you to face challenges in life.

The difference between ordinary and extraordinary is a little bit extra and that extra is a better understanding of Confidence and self-esteem.

Your Confidence and self-esteem will help you to devise your Action plan

Your Confidence and self-esteem will help you to set ambitious goals but only setting ambitious goals will not take you anywhere.

No matter how ambitious your goals are, you must convert your goals into realities . Your thoughts and plan need to be combined with the action plan. Then only you will be able to get the expected result.

Ways to build Confidence and self-esteem

Self Confidence and self-esteem is a feeling of certainty, of how sure you are of your skills.

1- Beleive you can do it

Before convincing anyone else that you can win, you have to convince yourself. The next thing you need to have faith in your abilities that you can achieve your goal.

2- Enhance your belief system by looking for confident role models.

Look around yourself you will find a number of role models, pick someone who really inspires you. Meghan Monaghan inspire me so much. In my case,

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Your goal can only be reached through a vehicle of a plan, in which we must fervently believe and upon which we must vigorously act. There is no shortcut to success.
- Pablo Picasso

Make some action plans and act on them. They will improve your belief system with passing time

Useful tips for an effective action plan

  • Map out your goal from start to finish.
  • List out all the possible tasks that you would need to do.
  • Make a note of the resources needed to achieve your goals. This list will include all kind of resources, for example, emotional, financial, technical, mental and physical.
  • Understand your goal type and Set the realistic goal then make action plan accordingly.
  • Begin with solving smaller problems first then leverage. Set a time frame to achieve it.

As mentioned above it is not a paid post.

What are the qualities of confident people?

  1. They believe in themselves, knows how to overcome emotional barriers.
  2. Rely on their abilities and set realistic goals for themselves
  3. They are morning persons and are not afraid to take challenges
  4. confident people know how to make the law of attraction work in their favour.
  5. They keep learning from their mistakes and ready to improve themselves
  6. They do not let other undermine their confidence and self-esteem.
  7. Their best quality is that they are optimistic in life and always think positive
  8. Most importantly they always look and feel confident.

Cause of Low self-confidence

The reason which can cause Low self confidence are defined below.

1- Lack of knowledge Lack of knowledge is really a major reason which forces people to cause low self-confidence. The good thing is that you can gain all the knowledge through books, podcast and internet articles.

You need to break the mental barrier and do what you are afraid of. Do not brush it under the carpet.

Many people are unable to be confident out of fear. It may be fear of failure, fear of rejection or fear of being criticized etc.

2- Under confidence

is not who you are that holds you back, It is who you think you are not

- Anonymous

Underconfidence can make you jittery so that even the simplest accomplishment seem beyond your reach. If you are under - confident you will avoid taking the risk and stretch yourself.

Low self-confidence and low self-esteem can be self-destructive, and it can often manifest itself as negativity.


On this post, we have defined that how someone can build confidence and self-esteem.

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We will be thankful for your greatness.

Last but not the least please keep smiling and stay blessed

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